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Friday

Persistence


Persistence

Persistence according to chambers dictionary means “keep on doing something in spite of opposition or difficulty”

   According to oxford dictionary to continue to do despite difficulties or opposition, in a way that seem unreasonable

To continue to try despite difficulties especially when people are against you and think that you are unreasonable

To continue for a long period of time without interruption or repeated frequently especially in a way that is annoying or cannot be stopped

The one big thing, all big achievers of all time have was “persistence”, about their goals dreams and ambitions, despite numerous critics, oppositions, trials, failures and many more, they still pushed and pressed on hoping, believing and knowing that success was just a reach away, so they never asked themselves this question should I quit now when success is just a reach away?

We young people have one thing at our disposal and that’s time, we can use are time for so many things, but for those that use their time to think have dreams, they like to achieve at particular time and sect of their lives, they dream of so many things, some of them are unrealistic while others tend to be achievable.

If a young person is actually reasonable enough he/she gets a paper and pen, takes note and begins research finds out if the dreams are men flying with  capes in the sky or  men flying in the sky in metallic objects, from there they now become vision from dreams, which means one is running with a vision in hand, taking note of the time when these goals are achievable , he/she begins to attain these goals, noticing all the things that have to be done, sacrifices that have to be made, and all kinds of training to be done and many more to be successful.

              “Zeal without knowledge is useless” 
  You need to be knowledgeable about what you are doing.

Getting Counsel about your goals is important, it sets you on the right part in order to avoid mistakes, the wrong choices to be made are drastically cut down due to counseling, you get a little know-how, the work that has to be done is reduced, materials are usually provided or you are told the ones to get.
In the beginning of the pursuit of these dreams of yours, you might begin to face difficulties but do not stop, if you fail get up; the greatness of a man is not the things he has achieved but the number of times he fell down and got up to be a better person.

“Everyone made or created something but Thomas Edison invented the Electric Bulb”

The way you carried out the job must have made you fail the first time, that means you have to change motive and plans in approach towards your goals, you must always change motive and notice the result, to avoid problems in the next trial.

You have to be highly disciplined, in order to be successful, you begin to reduce the time and attention you give to irrelevant things like, T.V, socializing online or physically, and many other things  that take our time and add nothing to us, be on the watch out!!

On the road of not only being in the headlines and also making the breaking news!!! There are bound to be oppositions, people telling you what you are about to do can’t be done that you should quit, and focus on some more important, they will laugh, discourage and actually stand in your way, just because they can’t stand you and your upcoming swag (greatness in the making) at all, or they just do not like what you are doing at all, do not listen to them do not let them get into your mind.

 Do not think about what they are saying, always be busy all the time in other to avoid them and the things they say, you might try and convince some of them, but please do not they use your whole time trying to explain your goals to them as this saying goes……….

“You cannot explain how light is to a blind man there is no word that can describe it”.

DO NOT CALM DOWN TO THINK ABOUT THE NEGATIVITY OR LIST ALL THE DISADVATAGES YOU WILL FACE, NO DON’T ACT FAST AS FAR AS THE DREAMS ARE REALISTIC.

Acknowledge the one who gave you the ideas (Pro 16 vs. 3), ability to attain them and many more, always pray for guidance, HE knows everything so ask NOW!!! (James 1:5)

In the name of the pursuit of your ambitions, do not become unrealistic towards H.S, your parents, guardians, teachers, coordinators and so on.
They know best, they may believe that some things are meant for a particular time, they may think you are not old enough or ready, they may think you are not carrying out the task the right way, their suggestion a times seem unreasonable, always chill, calm down and listen to them. When you disobey them GOD will no longer be for you and you are bound to have problems. Calm down, be patient and never be rude to them they know best a Yoruba proverb says……..
 “You can never have enough rags as an old person”
that means you can never have enough experience as the older people have they know best and GOD knows why He put them above you                         PLEASE ALWAYS LISTEN!!!!!!!
             “SO ALWAYS KEEP AT IT NO MATTER THE OPPOSITION”

H.S---- Holy Spirit

Sunday

That Ability you lack??!!!!


The Joseph Ability




Joseph, son of Israel (Jacob) and Rachel lived in the land of Canaan with eleven brothers. He was Rachel's firstborn and Israel's eleventh son. Of all the sons, Joseph was loved by his father the most. Israel even arrayed Joseph with a "long coat of many colors". 

Israel's favoritism toward Joseph caused his half brothers to hate him, and when Joseph was seventeen years old he had two dreams that made his brothers plot his demise. 

In the first dream, Joseph and his brothers gathered bundles of grain. Then, all of the grain bundles that had been gathered by the brothers gathered around Joseph's bundle and bowed down to it. In the second dream, the sun (father), the moon (mother) and eleven stars (brothers) bowed down to Joseph himself. When he told these two dreams to his brothers, they despised him for the implications that the family would be bowing down to Joseph. They became jealous that their father would even ponder over Joseph's words concerning these dreams. (Genesis 37:1-11)


The ability
This young teenager had the ability to turn wood to paper from paper to money, everybody that was his boss easily noticed this, as young as he was his father sent him to search for his older brothers alone, his father loved him so much, trusted him and believed that he could do adult duties like search for his brothers kilometers away from home which included, having dangerous encounters on the way. No matter how much we love someone or our parents love us they cannot entrust some duties to us because they believe we will falter. Joseph must have being getting all duties assigned to him well done, which proves his ability to carryout harder task and be trusted with them… Can you be trusted with small tasks from there to bigger tasks…..?

At Potiphar’s Crib
This young teen has just been sold by the last people he would never think that would sell him, is now going through emotional depression, he is shocked, bewildered at what is brothers have done to him, he just lost his mom when she was giving birth to his younger brother, now he has lost his whole family in a twinkle of an eye. Instead of getting comfort and tender loving care from somebody, he got the job of a no class citizen, he did not let his emotional stress affect his approach to work for his master, instead he worked hard at his assigned post, and he did not complain. He did his job well and he was promoted, to handle higher tasks, he did well and he was made to handle the position of the guy that supervises everyone, he did his so well and he became attractive……………..

                              Tame that Hormone
Joseph probably learnt how to control his hormones when he learnt what happened to his sister Dinah, (she was raped by her supposed boyfriend, the boy his family and friends were killed by Simon and Levi), so when Potiphar’s wife tempted him, he had flash backs about Dinah, he remembered that he was a child of God, and he cannot afford to do anything wrong, he just got promoted and besides he has being a good boy, he got sold what will probably happen if he started acting badly………………………….
                                 


                      The no reason experience
“This is what I get for being a good boy only GOD knows what I will get if I was a bad boy geezz”

Joseph got demoted from a no citizen, to a prisoner geezz!! Life really got complicated for Joseph, “I lost my mum, am trying to adjust to the fact of just having a step-mom and no real mom, I loose my whole family in a flash for no reason, I get a good job in an officer’s house, the officer’s wife starts hitting on me, geezz I never knew I was that good looking!! I avoided her now I get locked-up for good behavior, but they claim I tried to rape her, when she even assaulted me!! oh my! I need a lawyer!

After Joseph finished analyzing his situation he found a group of people ‘the for no-reason club’, they were sent to prison for no reason, one a butler and the other baker, they had bad dreams Joseph asked them about it interpreted it for them, one was going to be restored to the palace the other was going to be evicted from planet earth forcefully, in three days. Joseph quickly told the butler that he should remember him when he is restored.

Three days past, three months, Joseph was still in prison but he handled every little job that was given him well, he got promoted to head of prisoner operations……..

                              Finally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The king had bad dreams about some good cows and plants eaten up by bad cows and plants and they did not change after they ate them, the king was worried so called his juju guys to help, but the devil did not understand the dream too, so he could not tell them anything.  The butler had a brain wave and remembered Joseph that interpreted his dream and he told the king, the king got excited and wanted to see Joseph………….
                

                       From P to P to P to P because of one P
From the pit where his brothers kept him, until they found who would buy him, to Potiphar’s house from there to prison from to the palace, all this to get him prepared, to lead Egypt and the world out of the big ugly period ‘famine’.


In all
                                          The Joseph ability

  • To handle every job well, do it so well you will surely get promoted!!!
  • Do not let your past experience affect your functionality level
  • Always go the extra mile
  • Do not dwell on the past move on

In every situation if you’re Christian God is getting you prepared for something big, something more than your expectations only if you’re Christian AM SORRY 

ITS STRICTLY FOR CHRISTAINS

Lean on GOD no matter what!!! (Because leaning on GOD completely rocks and hey it’s the in thing it was never old school!)

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Wednesday

The coming of Christ you don’t know

                    The coming of Christ you don’t know 



We all know about the coming of Christ, but there is more to it, that meets the eye these days….

Young people die every day at a very young age and due to various reasons we can and can’t explain, if at all you don’t know any young person that has died below the age of 50, at least in the past three years you know of famous celebrities, that have passed on in a tragic way that are about or below the age of 50 (GOD has promised us we would live up to 70)…………
When we die, we are meant to be in heaven and how we live our lives down here will be attained too. (This only applies to Christians, non-Christians go straight to hell)

People who die at a young age get to see Christ at an unexpected time, they believed that they had much time on earth to live their lives and act as they want to. They never knew they were going to see Christ so soon and they were not prepared for the place they were going to “Heaven”
Nobody plans to die young, likewise our beloved ones that have passed on, in all we do lets all be prepared for the UNEXPECTED MEETING OF CHRIST

YOU MAY BE THE ONE GOING OR HE MAY BE THE ONE COMING

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Virginity where did we keep it?!


Virginity where did we keep it?!!!



Virginity is a very sensitive word for individuals, some people just laugh at it because they have lost it or they don’t really take it serious, some consider it as no big deal, but deep down in the minds of everyone it really means something, especially when we are sober, is it still worth keeping? We think of how we lost it? Why we lost it? The moment when we lost it was it worth it? Was the person we gave it up to worth it? People put their conscience to rest because of one phrase “EVERYBODY IS DOING IT”, I asked a young girl what virginity meant to her and she insulted me right there and then, Inever knew it was a sensitive issue for everyone.

I was in a lecture way back in school when a lecturer was talking about trees, he said trees are like girls, a forest that has not been touched at all is called a virgin forest, while a forest that has been touched is called a secondary forest, and they keep on going in there without no stop taking it down, it becomes a degraded forest, and there is still an incessant cutting down of trees from this forest it eventually become a desert, well all the guys were laughing, I was trying to find out the kind of look the girls were wearing, they looked like someone was narrating their darkest secret which they were ashamed of, the man’s explanation was so funny to me, I took out my phone and I started recording the big joke and a girl from behind hit me and said ‘’why are you trying to record it?” this just proved how not so funny it was to some people.

Virginity used to be real stuff back then, where parents hammered down on it and teens took it more seriously when I mean back then I mean my great grandparents back then!! But now it’s just something the movies have made to look like it’s just mare emotions, we’re in love or we’re just attracted to one another so what the heck let’s just do it

I remember while I was growing up there were some meals I just hated and some I can’t just go a day without them, it always seemed like the meals I hated seem to be the only thing that will keep me alive, and my beloved mother will force me to eat them. I always wish I could eat all the sweets, snacks and meals I wanted every day, but they tend not to be nutritional at all, but I did everything within my feeble power not to eat these undesirable dishes, Iwaste time to avoid my horrible breakfast, skip the unwanted lunches, throw away the tasteless dinner and I always snick and hide to have my delicious delicacies when they are not provided. You need to hear the sermon about my meals when I was ill, my mum made it seem as if I was sick because I refused to eat the dishes she wanted me to eat, that if I had being eating them I would not be sick, she makes me feel, all the food I like eating were just over rated! True or false I don’t know?! It’s the same for sex, being a youth you get the sex talk that abstinence is best but we think we know best and engage ourselves in strange endeavors, well we will live with results of our escapades whether good or bad.

In the Yoruba culture in the olden times, it was a big deal to find out whether the girl to be married to is a virgin or not, the girl will be checked and if she passes the exam a full box of matches will be sent to the family of the girl, if not the box of match will be half full. The weather has changed now we have what we call “Global warming”, so did human practices in some Yoruba homes, a wife to be must be pregnant before she gets married, they all treat virginity like it’s some vintage practice. 

Growing up I learnt there was HIV around, that it spreads like wild fire and it kills people, so there were Ads about how to prevent it which was abstinence, later as time passed and they figured it wasn’t working, condoms were being advertised, it seemed to work well they figured out that everyone likes to do it now and everyone likes to do with anyone they can find, the Ads were now begging everyone to just stick to one partner. 

Now the way to prevent the contraction of this deadly virus and its cousins STDs these days is to use the G unit “condom”, because according to what is happening these days we might want to do it whenever, wherever and with whomever we can do it with, you may not really love the person or even know the person for that matter anything can happen, and my guys will always take all necessary steps to play safe, they keep their little shot-gun anywhere it can be kept just for the rainy day.

A freshman came to visit me and after the visit, I was escorting her home and we met a good friend of ours Chris and his girlfriend, we were all talking and playing, the freshman tried to tickle me and I jumped at it, she found out that I was very ticklish then she said that one of our very good friends told her that am a virgin, I just smiled all of a sudden Chris’s girlfriend jumped to my defense knowing that it was true, said “oh no! He is not a virgin”, that am not a virgin at all!! she went on to say it’s a great pride for a girl to be a virgin but it’s certainly not good for a guy to be one, and I just marveled at this sayings, actually this was not the first time I was hearing that “it’s not good for a guy not to be a virgin”, what I wonder about is the fact that it’s pride for girls to keep their virginity, and it’s not for guys to keep it but what happens to the girls the guys lose their virginity to, or have sex with, they have nothing to be proud about!!

There is nothing as complicated as sex, for guys and girls,  apart from the unwanted results like HIV and pregnancy, some people fell cheapened, like they have being devalued, they feel less a human, for any human at all if they have to walk in in a room full of people and they find out they have spent a night with at least twenty people in the room, they feel less than garbage, for some people they think this only applies to girls alone that guys take pride in it well I don’t think so. Back in school I was walking with a couple of friends and one of the guys wanted to pee, so he walked some distance from us and turned to the bush and said he didn’t want any of us to see his stuff, we know him for sleeping around with the next available thing, we called him public toilet that his stuff has seen by everyone so what is there to hide.

Parents usually flair up when their kids tend to reach that age, when they could start dating, they are not really worried about the fact that their kids are dating but the fact that they could start having sex, just to imagine their little one engaging in something they really need to matured for, taunts them like night mares, they try the sex talk, and encourage they save sex till marriage which they know they won’t because they themselves as parents didn’t, so they a times say they should have sex with someone they truly love, and always play safe. The save sex till marriage thing is beginning to dwindle from generation to generation because of so many countless reasons, some people just don’t believe in it , for some it just happen that they were too in love they didn’t know how they lost it, some claim they had to have sex to keep their beloved one, for some it was something they couldn’t control, a force that took charge of the situation that one could not fight against then and there and the reasons just go on and on, well for any critic there is one thing they will always say YOU HAD A CHOICE!!!

The things that happen in one’s life tends to happen according to one word ‘’principle’’, some people want to be rich, some just want a comfortable life, some want to visit all the parts of the world, some want to get married while some don’t want to, some want children and some don’t want any at all, this life we live is governed by principles. Growing up as individuals we all had some basic principles about life and the choices we planned on making in it, well the laws we laid down for our lives do not really cover all areas, but some people made up their minds on what to do and what not to do about sex, some planned on saving it till marriage and lost it along the way, some just planned on having it with the one they love the most and so many more unexplainable reasons, while some still had virginity with them and gave it all up in marriage because they had made up their mind on what they wanted and they chased it till the very end.

Decision making tends to be one of the hardest thing in a human’s life, we tend to find ourselves at tight corners atall times, especially when it comes to the ones that will change our lives forever, a decision one must not take the wrong turn, to me when making a decision I always consider one thing, that when am in my 80s, 90s, or even more than these age ranges, that what will I say I  made of my life and its choices, all I just want to do at that age is to smile and say to myself not minding what anybody thinks of me is “you did the right thing man” with no regret.


you cannot blame your parents for the life that you have, they were supposed to give you one thing and one thing only life and it’s what you make out of it that counts, and not what they did or didn’t do stop blaming anybody for the happenings in your life it’s yours not mine there’s only one person that can ruin it for you and that’s you!!


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Joseph Ability


The Joseph Ability
Joseph, son of Israel (Jacob) and Rachel lived in the land of Canaan with eleven brothers. He was Rachel's firstborn and Israel's eleventh son. Of all the sons, Joseph was loved by his father the most. Israel even arrayed Joseph with a "long coat of many colors". Israel's favoritism toward Joseph caused his half brothers to hate him, and when Joseph was seventeen old he had two dreams that made his brothers plot his demise. In the first dream, Joseph and his brothers gathered bundles of grain. Then, all of the grain bundles that had been prepared by the brothers gathered around Joseph's bundle and bowed down to it. In the second dream, the sun (father), the moon (mother) and eleven stars (brothers) bowed down to Joseph himself. When he told these two dreams to his brothers, they despised him for the implications that the family would be bowing down to Joseph. They became jealous that their father would even ponder over Joseph's words concerning these dreams. (Genesis 37:1-11)
The ability
This young teenager had the ability to turn wood to paper from paper to money, everybody that was his boss easily noticed this, as young as he was his father sent him to search for his older brothers alone, his father loved him so much, trusted him and believed that he could do adult duties like search for his brothers kilometers away from home which included, having dangerous encounters on the way. No matter how much we love someone or our parents love us they cannot entrust some duties to us because they believe we will falter. Joseph must have being getting all duties assigned to him well done, which proves his ability to carryout harder task and be trusted with them… Can you be trusted with small tasks from there to bigger tasks…..?
At Potiphar’s Crib
This young teen has just been sold by the last people he would never think that would sell him, is now going through emotional depression, he is shocked, bewildered at what is brothers have done to him, he just lost his mom when she was giving birth to his younger brother, now he has lost his whole family in a twinkle of an eye. Instead of getting comfort and tender loving care from somebody, he got the job of a no class citizen, he did not let his emotional stress affect his approach to work for his master, instead he worked hard at his assigned post, and he did not complain. He did his job well and he was promoted, to handle higher tasks, he did well and he was made to handle the position of the guy that supervises everyone, he did his so well and he became attractive……………..
                                                                              Tame that Hormone
Joseph probably learnt how to control his hormones when he learnt what happened to his sister Dinah, (she was raped by her supposed boyfriend, the boy his family and friends were killed by Simon and Levi), so when Potiphar’s wife tempted him, he had flash backs about Dinah, he remembered that he was a child of God, and he cannot afford to do anything wrong, he just got promoted and besides he has being a good boy he got sold what will probably happen if he started acting badly………………………….
                                                                                 The no reason experience
“This is what I get for being a good boy only GOD knows what I will get if I was a bad boy geezz”
Joseph got demoted from a no citizen, to a prisoner geezz!! Life really got complicated for Joseph, “I lost my mum, am trying to adjust to the fact of just having a step-mom and no real mom, I loose my whole family in a flash for no reason, I get a good job in an officer’s house, the officer’s wife starts coming unto me, geezz I never knew I was that good looking, I avoided her now I get locked-up for good behavior, but they claim I tried to rape her, when she even assaulted me oh my! I need a lawyer!
After Joseph finished thinking to himself he found a group of people ‘the for no-reason club’, they were sent to prison for no reason, one a butler and the other baker, they had bad dreams Joseph asked them about it interpreted it for them, one was going to be restored to the palace the other was going to be evicted from planet earth forcefully, in three days. Joseph quickly told the butler that he should remember him when he is restored.
Three days past, three months, Joseph was still in prison but he handled every little job that was given him well, he got promoted to head of prison operations……..
                                                                       Finally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The king had bad dreams about some good cows and plants eaten up by bad cows and plants and they did not change after they ate them, the king was worried so he called his juju guys to help, but the devil did not understand the dream too, so he could not tell them anything.  The butler had a brain wave and remembered Joseph that interpreted his dream and he told the king, the king got excited and wanted to see joseph………….
                                                                   From P to P to P to P because of one P
From the Pit where his brothers kept him, until they found who would buy him, to Potiphar’s house from there to Prison to the Palace, all this to get him prepared, to lead Egypt and the world out of the big ugly Period ‘famine’.
In all
The Joseph ability

To handle every job well, do it so well you will surely get promoted!!!
Do not let your past experience affect your functionality level
Always go the extra mile
Do not dwell on the past move on
In every situation if you’re Christian God is getting you prepared for something big, something more than your expectations only if you’re Christian AM SORRY ITS STRICTLY FOR CHRISTAINS
Lean on GOD no matter what!!! (Because leaning on GOD completely rocks and hey it’s the in thing it was never old school! Pro3:5-8 )